Comments on: pride (in the name of love)

By: Alice

Alice — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 12:29:34 +0000

Hi Annika… thank you for your comment on my blog I just realised that this post was also about the ‘not so fluffy stuff’… that made me smile I think you sound like a very strong woman and bravo to your husband. To turn ourselves around and then help others is a truly wonderful thing – you should both be proud.

By: sherrie and franco

sherrie and franco — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 04:28:17 +0000

Annika very happy for you!! as a mom of a recovering drug user, which she has only 1 1/2 yrs clean I can celebrate with you and your family!!! But she, like you realizes she has a whole new life ahead of her… In the last year she has gone thru 1 yr of college, about ready to get into yr two and has met her man and was married in August. something she was never sure she would have.. so I have confidence that all things we dream of can be achieved.. I look forward to seeing you at the GTG!!!
Best to you and your family!
Sherrie

By: Jill

Jill — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 12:57:37 +0000

Hi Annika,

I don’t think I have ever commented before but I have read your blog ever since I started reading Expats, when it became its own site after leaving Slow Trav. But I am delurking today to say a huge congratulations to you and your husband!! Two years sober is incredible, just as two days is as well. I am certain you both work so hard at this everyday and I applaud you both. Alcoholism, like other addictions, is an illness just like cancer is, but is so misunderstood and carries such stigmas. I am so relieved for you that you shared this here and I hope it helps you to feel lighter. Big hugs to you and congratulations to you both on your husband’s sobriety and new path in life!! Thinking of you!

By: Elin i Örebro

Elin i Örebro — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 10:09:09 +0000

Det var väldigt starkt av dig att skriva det här inlägget. Du ska inte behöva skämmas över det du/ni har gått igenom men det är dessvärre allt för ofta det blir så. Jag har inte gått igenom i närheten så mycket men jag känner ändå igen känslorna, skammen och så vidare. Jag beundrar din styrka och önskar er all lycka i framtiden.

Många kramar

By: Em from Ribollita Reboiled

Em from Ribollita Reboiled — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 21:21:45 +0000

all the things I said before…you are an incredible, strong woman. keep thinking in that beautiful and positive way that you do. You deserve all your dreams!

By: janie

janie — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:21:48 +0000

Annika-you are such a strong person and you should feel proud of all you’ve done over the years to hold onto to your family and make the best life for all of you. It is good that you have had the courage to admit all these things-there’s no shame in any of it. I am happy for you and your husband that you are both in such a good place now.

By: Annika

Annika — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 10:33:25 +0000

wow Riccardo that was such a beautiful comment and it really hit home with me.

Opening up like this is scary but so far only good things have come out of it.

By: Riccardo

Riccardo — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 10:13:57 +0000

Annika,

now I know the reason why there was always a particular background of homesick in your writing that without no doubts, gives to your blog the style of writing followed by so many people.

I can understand your dream of Italy, the sea, the people or most probably an escape from ordinary life everyone dreams that makes so interesting to read you.

I actually live in north Italy .When things go wrong a week end along the seaside where the weather is warmer even in winter, eating fish on the beach, to me is one of the best pleasure of life. Of course, it’s a dream at 1 hour driving. The week is lighter after that. I like to read there are others thinking like me !

Thanks again for your writing and best wishes for your dreams

By: Maisie Springer

Maisie Springer — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 18:27:12 +0000

The southern region of Campania includes the city of Naples and there are several tourist destinations, this includes the Greek Temples at Paestrum, Sibyl’s Cave at Cumae, the Roman ruins at Pompeii and the volcanoes at Vesuvius. Holidays in Italy, whether in town or country, offer variety, sunshine and a warm welcome from the friendly local population.

By: Joe Miranda

Joe Miranda — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 18:03:32 +0000

?There’s more art and architecture to see in Italy than somebody could conceivably see in a lifetime.

By: Anna Sandén

Anna Sandén — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 13:06:25 +0000

Vilken fin text, Annika! Den känns i hjärtat. Krama om André från mig!

By: Laurie

Laurie — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 09:45:06 +0000

Yes, Annika, Gil said it: you do put yourself down – although I think you are realizing it now and it looks like you are working your way out. I am SO proud of you and your husband who I have never doubted you loved with all your heart. Sending you love. I am proud to call you my friend, dear one!

By: Tina

Tina — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 08:14:28 +0000

Oh honey you are a super star. I’m glad you are talking about it now. BIG hug coming your way, and congratulations to you and your family for getting through this!

By: Annika

Annika — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:05:58 +0000

thanks Gil, that is exactly what I am working on right now I have put myself down for years without even knowing it, but that has got to stop and I think it’s about to

By: Gil

Gil — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:03:52 +0000

Wow! Annika my friend please stop putting your self down. Your husband’s sobriety is a reflection on the good person that you are. God Bless you and your family.